Frequently Asked Questions
To give our families and friends some guidance in
selecting a funeral service that is
meaningful, we have
put together answers to questions about different types of funeral
options.
What is the difference between a Funeral and a Memorial
Service
Really the only difference between these two services is
whether or not the body is present. A
funeral service is conducted with the presence of the body and a
memorial service is conducted in memory of the person, without the
presence of the body.
Why is a Funeral Service important?
In the earliest recorded times, societies honored
the dead through ceremonies. According to beliefs at that
time, the purpose of the ritual was to properly send the decedent
on the journey into the next life. Today, however, psychologists and
other experts agree that the
benefits of the funeral are for those left behind; those who must
reconstruct their lives following their loss. Before family and friends
can fully adjust to their loss, survivors must
express their grief in way meaningful to them. They must face, openly
and realistically, the fact the death has indeed occurred. The
funeral provides the opportunity to do exactly that.
What is the purpose of Embalming
Embalming sanitizes and preserves the body. This in turn
makes it possible to lengthen the
time between death
and the final disposition, thus allowing family members time to arrange
and participate in the type of service most
comforting to them.
Is Embalming required by Law
Embalming is required
if the family has selected a funeral service with a public wake or
visitation. Embalming is also required if
the deceased is to be transported from one state
to another by common
carrier. For example, when an individual passes away in Florida and is to be
transported by air to Wisconsin for services or burial, embalming would
be required.
Why do Funerals seem so Expensive
When compared to
other major life cycle events, like births and weddings, funeral are not
expensive. A wedding costs at least three
times as much; but because it is a happy event,
wedding costs are rarely
criticized. A funeral home is a 24-hour, labor-intensive business, with
extensive facilities (viewing rooms, chapels, hearses, other equipment,
etc.); these expenses must be factored into the cost of a
funeral. Moreover, the cost of a funeral is not
only merchandise, like caskets, but
also services of a funeral director in making
arrangements,
securing appropriate forms, coordinating a working relationship with
doctors, ministers, florists, newspapers and other requested
third-parties; and finalizing all the necessary details.
Can you
still have a Traditional Funeral with Cremation
Just because someone is
interested in cremation does not mean that the family cannot have a
visitation and funeral service. All of the customs and ceremonies associated
with a traditional funeral can still be
performed prior to the cremation taking place. For these
occasions, we offer economical
cremation caskets and rental caskets in order to offer your
family the option of a traditional
funeral service, while still maintaining a cost effective
alternative.
How can a Funeral be Personalized
It is becoming more
common to tailor a funeral service to the personality of the deceased.
Prayers and
remembrances offered by family and friends, a eulogy offered by a close
friend, favorite music, treasured
belongings, pictures and mementos can all play a major
role in making the final tribute
fitting and moving. The family can choose to assemble a
display containing family photographs,
favorite possessions, items from a hobby or awards
the deceased received. These items help
shift the emphasis of the service to the memories of the person's
life, rather than on the circumstances of his or her death. Personalization
can also be added by simply choosing the
most appropriate services and products available
from the funeral home. These include
cremation and its various service options, participating in a living
memorial program, or purchasing a burial plot below the canopy of a
sturdy oak tree.
What
Cemetery options are available for Burial
Traditional funerals
which conclude in earth burial, is burying the remains which are contained
in a casket, which is then placed into a vault and then into the ground.
Purchases made for this option generally include a casket, a vault, a
cemetery plot, opening and closing charges from
the cemetery and a headstone or grave marker. Above
ground entombment is provided in
mausoleums, which are buildings designed and
maintained by the
cemetery.
Cremation options include earth burial, a niche, personal
possession or scattering. A
columbarium niche is an
area in a mausoleum where the cremains are placed.
Some cemeteries include
the opening and closing charge in the purchase of a plot or niche
and some
cemeteries require a vault for burial of cremains.
Please
feel free to contact us with any questions.
e-mail
info@phillipfuneralhome.com
1420 W. Paradise Dr.
119 Kettle Moraine Dr. South
West Bend, WI 53095
Slinger, WI 53086
262-338-2050 262-644-5296